Single and Available

If someone had asked me, how long have you been really single single, i would say probably almost 3 years. Not single single, that was like about a month ago,  i had some in- betweens which didn't really work.... As you grow older, its either your to lazy to go out and met people or that you are way comfortable with yourself and friends that you don't need a men. 

I am both.... and i guess i have higher expectation now that it seems to be pretty hard to find the right one. Ok so the reason why i'm writing this post is basically because i recently discovered Tinder. This online/apps base dating/hangout/ hook-up thing. I dont believe in online dating etc but it was fun once i decided to join. I guess the main reason why i decided to join was to brush up on my social skills, its easier when you dont know that person and you just have a normal conversations with them. (plus u can pick who you want to talk to). But i still dont believe in meeting strangers online. Meeting friends of a friends on Facebook is fine but i still have my reservation on meeting guys via online dating sites etc. Anyway, i shall be updating about Tinder in some future post.

But the funny thing is you can sometime met someone that you already know, Which happened to me on the first day of joining. If you like someone on tinder you have to swipe to the right, so when i saw a familiar face that is what i did and guess what? it was a match. So i guess it is kinda fun being on Tinder, not only do you met new people but you kinda re-connect with old ones as well... so  am i still on tinder? well.. i've not been logging in lately... and it was good to re-connect with that one particular friend